conflict-resolution

how a cat solves a conflict

I hunt alone,

and then I rest among people.

how can

I love you more?

how can

I love me

more?

I ask for help in my hunt,

for I know I am never truly alone.

1

how can I love me more?

this includes:

- in this conflict situation, how did/do I perpetuate the conflict?

- what is my truth and what does it look like if I stay in it?

- is there something I need / a boundary I have that I didn’t communicate clearly (from a place of love)?

- where do I ask for forgiveness for myself?

- where do I ask for forgiveness for the other person?

when you have found your answers, you will feel that you are open to the second question. if you feel not open to it yet, continue to sit in the above questions. the cat is a patient hunter.

2

how can I love you more?

seek a dialogue in which you ask this question to the person you are in conflict with. be honest with yourself, only ask if you truly want to know!
if you still feel resentment, go back to 1.

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